Yesterday our friend, Karlea, tagged me in a FB post from our nearby donut shop. Paradise Donuts was reminding all their customers that it was National Donut Day, and that they were giving everyone a FREE donut. Karlea just knew that Aaron would love stopping in for a donut. Soon I was explaining National Donut Day to Aaron, asking him if he wanted to stop on our way to his day group for a donut. YAY!!
I must backtrack a bit to explain. Nearly every day at Paradigm (Aaron’s day group), Antoine or another staff will take Aaron to the nearby QuikTrip. I send money with Aaron, and he is able to buy something to eat and drink. He absolutely loves this small outing. His QuikTrip visit is ingrained into his routine now.
Back to yesterday.
Me: Aaron, today is National Donut Day. Paradise Donuts is giving away a free donut to everyone that comes in. Would you like to stop there on our way to Paradigm? We can get a free donut!
Me: What? You don’t want a donut? A FREE donut?!
Aaron (a little more emphatically): No!
Me: Why don’t you want a donut?
Aaron: I want to go to QuikTrip.
Me: I’m still sending money and you can still go to QuikTrip.
Aaron: I like Antoine taking me to QuikTrip for food.
Me: Antoine will still take you to QuikTrip for food.
Aaron: I like QuikTrip food, NOT a donut!
Me: But you like donuts. Just a few days ago you were happy that we stopped to get donuts.
Aaron: I like Antoine taking me to QuikTrip more than you taking me for a donut!
These conversations usually lead to personal insults as Aaron attempts to drive home the fact that on Paradigm days…almost always…QuikTrip is what he does and where he goes for food and fun.
Nothing will deter him from his routine.
Not even a donut.
Not with Mom.
I dropped it like a hot donut and took Aaron to Paradigm.
Later, when I picked Aaron up, he told me about his day.
Aaron: Mom, they had donuts at Paradigm for donut day.
Me: Oh, that’s fun! Did you eat one?
Me: You didn’t eat a donut?!
Me: Why not?!
Aaron: I didn’t want one. I wanted to go to QuikTrip.
I decided to just drop it. Aaron didn’t see me shaking my head.
After a few moments of silence:
Aaron: Antoine took me to QuikTrip!
Me: Good! What did you buy today?
Aaron: I bought two donuts.
There are not enough letter combinations in the English alphabet for me to form enough words to voice what I was thinking and feeling and wanting to say at that moment.
Just as well.
Laughter is far better than lectures during these times.
BUT I WANT A DONUT!!!!!